This past Sunday, Shaun and I went for our first swim of the season. The water in our pool had reached just a hair below eighty degrees, and we were both tired of waiting. It was time for action!
Amanda, on the other hand, assured us that she would be waiting until the temperature of the water grew closer to ninety degrees. She would wait until late June, or even July before making her swimming debut.
Then, yesterday, something happened to change all of that. One of Amanda’s sponsees came over to visit, and brought her nearly one-year-old son with her. I was up in my office looking down on the backyard, when the three of them appeared and headed toward the water.
“Awe, they’re gonna dip his feet in the water.” I thought it was such a cute sight.
The next thing I know, Amanda is in the water, holding our little friend, helping him float through the water. Soon her sponsee had changed clothes and had joined the two of them. They were in the pool for the next hour or so.
As our day was winding down last night, Amanda was reflecting on how much fun she’d had out there swimming. “I’m looking forward to getting in the pool again tomorrow afternoon!”
This little story offers a good hint at how easy it is to practice positive thinking under the right circumstances. Because of a little boy’s smile and enthusiasm, that “way too cold” water became “perfect”! It is a valuable lesson for me to remember as I practice positive thinking in my own life.
In the very earliest days of my recovery, positive thinking had become a bit of a struggle for me. It’s hard, after all, to see my glass as “half-full” when it appears to have been crushed into a million pieces. It seemed like a full-time job to simply avoid being cut by its broken pieces that were scattered all around me.
All that changed as I invested more and more time around my newfound friends in recovery. In meetings, I was greeted by their warmth, friendship, and even laughter. The same was true at the special events and camp outs I was attending. Like our little guest’s enthusiasm drawing Amanda into the water, their enthusiasm convinced me to keep coming back. They made me believe I could find a new way of life.
Things have only gotten better from there. Today, I not only enjoy the positive thinking made possible by surrounding myself with like-minded recovering addicts. Today, I also get to be one of those addicts whose attitude welcomes others into the water.
Have a remarkable day!