Yesterday morning, after I finished my time of prayer and meditation, I briefly turned my attention to our pool. Shaun and I had spent the better part of Saturday morning opening the pool for the season; and yesterday I wanted to backwash the filter again to help clear debris it had caught overnight.
Everything was just fine until I started the pump back up to begin filtering water again. That was when the filter made a loud popping sound. A large fisher opened up in the side of the filtration unit, and water was spraying everywhere.
“Oh, that’s not good.” That was all I could say, as I reached up to flip the switch to turn it back off. Slowly, the water drained out of the filter housing, soaking my feet in the process.
Since it was Mother’s Day, I didn’t want to burden Amanda with the bad news about the pool filter first thing. So, first Shaun and I presented her with her gifts, and got ready for church. I didn’t want to tell her until we were in the car. That way it wouldn’t interrupt the process of getting ready to head out the door. We were talking about other things along the way, so I didn’t mention it then either.
Finally, as we were rolling through the church parking lot, I mentioned the pool filter. I described what had happened, and how much it would likely cost to replace, and Amanda, who manages our household budget, assured me it was no big deal. She had plenty of money set aside for such things.
Only then did I realize that the repairs would be covered by our home warranty. A few extra dollars a month to cover the pool and its accessories came to the rescue! Our out-of-pocket for the repairs would only be $100.
Here’s the thing, though… I only thought about the home warranty after sharing about the problem with Amanda. Before then, my mind was totally consumed with breaking the news to her, and fixing the problem on my own. What I should have been focusing on is the fact that she and I are partners in life, and she is more than willing to share the burden of such problems.
That is one of the aspects of practicing sharing and caring that I can easily miss out on if I’m not careful. I am much too quick to keep bad news hidden from others, and when I do, I ignore the fact that there are others who are willing and able to help me because they care. Then, matters are only compounded as I become so obsessed with the secret of the problem that my mind cannot clearly focus on the solution.
I’m grateful for the growth I’ve experienced in this area. I know I still have work to do; but little lessons like yesterday’s remind me that when I share my burdens with the people who love me, it indicates that I truly care about finding a solution.
Have a remarkable day!